Ok, so your relationship with that special someone has come and gone but somehow you still want them back. Here's how to turn that ex-boyfriend, girlfriend or lover into your significant other once again.
2. Be the person your ex fell in love with. Your ex was most likely attracted to you because he or she felt good with you, and you were fulfilling his or her emotional needs. Think on how you may have changed and take definite steps to correct any bad habits and mistakes.
3. The first thing that you say to your ex is extremely important. Say the wrong words may cost you the chance to ever get your ex back. Never respond to your ex’s request for a breakup by crying and begging them to come back. This more often that not does not work and drives them further away. You need to understand that even though your ex initiates the breakup, there is a good chance that they still harbor good feelings for you.
4. Use the past to your advantage. If your ex has ever complimented your outfit, wear it again. Or, share a light-hearted memory with them. If you have a chance to meet, do it at a familiar place you used to hang out together.
5. Listen carefully to your ex’s choice of words. If he or she ever uses an unusual or uncommon word, casually slip it into your conversation again. This subconsciously tells your ex that you are similar due to exclusive and similar ways of talking.
6. If your break up is less than a couple weeks, completely ignore your ex. Your ex will call you if he or she likes you. If that doesn’t happen, nothing you say or wear will change that. This usually works unless you are dealing with an ex that thinks that if you aren't coming after them, you don't care. Sometimes, ignoring your ex makes them feel like you are perfectly fine without them and are moving on, which is the exact opposite of what you want when you are trying to get back them. Be sure you know exactly what kind of person you are dealing with when trying to get your ex back.
7. Let your ex know you were thinking about them. Remember that one time you two went to dinner at that great new restaurant and had a wonderful time? Leave your ex a short email telling saying you ate there recently and thought of them. And, by the way, how is he or she doing? This is a non-threatening way to have a light conversation, and also, a small request for a reply back.
8. Pay a little attention to your appearance if you have been neglecting yourself in that department.
9. Casually ask if your ex would like to do something non-committal. Have a drink with friends, play miniature golf, play tennis or do some other things that friends and first dates alike can do. And whatever it is, keep it fun. Skip out on the serious talks for now. You'll have plenty of time to talk about that later. If your ex initiates it, follow their lead but don't go heavy.
10. Find other things to focus on. If you focus your attention on a new activity, you will have less time to miss your ex and you’ll ultimately feel stronger and more in control of your life. And if you are still in contact, your ex will notice that you have "moved on". This will make you more desirable to him or her.
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